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    Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    Here in Canada child-rearing has certainly changed since I was last here.

    Children no longer play together on the street. Instead they engage in pre-arranged "playdates." Without any evidence that things are now more dangerous, parents nonetheless never let children out of their sight. Ever.

    Everything has become completely child-centered. I actually went to a party full of adults and children and when one of the kids said out loud "stop talking!" all of the adults actually stopped talking! The worst is when you visit friends with children for a potluck dinner or something and everyone has to watch Thomas the Train because Junior has bade it so.

    Children are rarely scolded or talked down to. Nowadays, you must "dialogue" with your progeny. It seems like if your kids are not organic vegetarians who address you by your first name you are definately living in the in the Leave It To Beaver era. "And what!? Your son is vaccinated? Aren't you aware of the government autism conspiracy?" Blah, blah.

    Although some aspects of this are very good, I wonder if in the West we are raising a generation of brats who will be very disappointed indeed when they discover the world does not revolve around them!

    Thailand, of course, is very different, for better or worse.

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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    IThink this was taken from this Forum, and has to be about the best explanation of diferences between kids of Today, and kids of Yesteryear.

    TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 19_ _

    40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !!



    First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank
    while they
    carried us.
    They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and
    didn't get tested for diabetes.

    Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright
    colored
    lead-based paints.

    We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and
    when we
    rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took
    hitchhiking.

    As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

    Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special
    treat.

    We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

    We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO
    ONE
    actually died from this.

    We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soda pop with
    sugar in it, but
    we weren't overweight because
    WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!

    We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we
    were back
    when the streetlights came on.

    No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

    We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then
    ride down
    the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into
    the
    bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

    We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at
    all, no
    99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no
    cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat
    rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

    We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were
    no
    lawsuits from these accidents.

    We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live
    in us forever.

    We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays.

    We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were
    told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

    We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door
    or rang
    the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!

    Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who
    didn't
    had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

    The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard
    of. They
    actually sided with the law!

    This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem
    solvers
    and inventors ever!

    The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new
    ideas.

    We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned

    HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!



    And YOU are one of them! CONGRATULATIONS!



    You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to
    grow up as
    kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for
    our own good.
    And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know
    how brave their parents were.
    My next door neighbours have challenged me to a water fight , so I am just writing this while I am waiting for the kettle to boil .

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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    Personally I think my kid is much better off here....for all Thailand's faults.

    Education versus atmosphere/attitude etc.


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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    Happychappy, my thoughts exactly!

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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    Happy Chappy thanks that was brilliant. And KK I prefer to have my kids here at a younger age as well. But when they get outa primary school something is gonna have to change. Elementary schools are not up to par here.

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    Too long in Exile, baby you just arent my friend.
    Too long in Exile my friend, Baby you can never go home again.

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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    Children no longer play together on the street. Instead they engage in pre-arranged "playdates."
    I assume that if they're serious about the relationship they don't play "doctors and nurses" until at least the third date.


    Everything has become completely child-centered. I actually went to a party full of adults and children and when one of the kids said out loud "stop talking!" all of the adults actually stopped talking!
    Or would you like to swing on a star?

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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    Quote Originally Posted by aging one
    Happy Chappy thanks that was brilliant. And KK I prefer to have my kids here at a younger age as well. But when they get outa primary school something is gonna have to change. Elementary schools are not up to par here.

    San Rafael High class of 1970.
    I don't know mate....I've always been of the belief it's the individual not the school. And shit there's not a lot good telly shows can't teach him.

    Then again maybe you'll be in for a surprise back in the States! I know a chap on another site was thinking of bringing his kid back from the UK as the education level was worse than here, as was the 'nastiness'.

    Things have changed a great deal even from when I went to school.

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    Re: Thai/Western Approaches To Raising Children

    If I can find a program that is at least bilingual and teaches Geography, World History, and Literature I may stay. But I dont want my kids to end up like the kids at two universities where I teach. 2 in 10 know how to use their brain. The rest can get buy, but only in a country like this. I want my kids to have the same opportunities if not better opportunities than I did.

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