Hey guys, so you know about me and Nok. When I come over I stopped sending her the weekly payment, because i got my own place now so need to look after costs a bit more. She said she was fine (this means there not fine at all). Anyway she stopp messaging n answering my calls. So a few days ago I go to her bar and ask whats up, she said I dont love her or care as I dont give her money etc etc. I tried to explain but you know women they dont listen.
Anyway I agreed to give her some money for now, not a lot. She phoned me a few day ago, she said she is going to Ubon something or another to see her family, she want me too come and visit. WTF?
is this normal, I dont really want to meet her family n stuff, but if I say no i think chit will hit the fan?
anybody had a thai gf before, is this normal?
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I have hung around bargirls and was also married to a Thai for 10 years.
She is gaming you and trying to get inside your head.
It's all about the money.
She wants you to meet her family so you can pay her way down, treat her family (ie. milk you), and get transport and costs back.
Then she can also try to use the trip to convince you that she cares about you so much that she intro'd you to her family (means nothing), and guilt/compel you into "being with her", (i.e. committing more re$ource$ into her) because she has already introduced you to her family and it will be a major loss of face for her if you drop her.
She is gaming you. Most people on this board have most likely seen and heard it all before, and a fair share have also had it happen to them.
Either walk or game her better than she games you. Since I don't think that's even remotely possible for most farang, let alone men (vs. cold hearted women), I'm suggesting you walk.
Or fuck it, get some experience under your belt; but go in with yer eyes open...
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Did she say, 'the ceiling?'Originally Posted by 5anuk
Change your number and don't return to her bar. Done.
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@ Alex, i read this too on stickman, I think shes different though. She said she didn't talk to me because she though I found someone else and thus not giving her money any more. I told her not the case but just been busy my self. Not seen her as much also. I have seen her place its not the best, dont want her moving in with me though, which makes her a bit more werid with everything.
Ubon a good place to visit?
Or did she say, "Kon muuet yao up me too mutt every day maak maak"?
What Alex said.
The worst time for these girls is when the saps who give 'em money are actually in-country. No wonder she wants to take you to the family. You're gonna be paying for it, boy.
go to ubon. best thailand intro youll get.
Believe it.
I think shes different though.
She said she didn't talk to me because she though I found someone else and thus not giving her money any more.
And what is she going to say? The truth like I'm telling you...?
Ubon Ratchatani?Ubon a good place to visit?
Boring, IME/IMO
Upon reconsideration, Don Ho's advice might be the best for you...
You have to at least know that you're being scammed before I would suggest you ride it out for the experience...
Keep us posted...
Alex
ps. Love your blog.
She's a ho. You have to give her money. Yes ... it's normal.
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i agree with keekwai for once
The way bargirls make money is by receiving money from men for sex.
You met a bargirl and agreed to give her a constant supply of money to pay attention to you while you were away.
You came to Thailand, cut off her supply of money, so she cut you off. Don't worry, she has others supporting her from abroad.
Now, to prove that you love her, she wants you to meet her family, take them out to eat, help with bills, etc., and continue to support her and your new family.
Cut her off completely. She does not love you. It's not about love with her. Listen to us on this forum.
I really hope that she is not the reason you came back to Thailand(not advice; just my thoughts.)
"Thailand is way past the days of tuna, pineapples, and bargirls." - Sharky
I have a girlfriend whose job it is to go with men for money...I'm a man...I stopped giving her money and now she doesn't want to see me...why?...I'm so confused...
FFS...piss poor windup...or the worlds stupidest dude...
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