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    Quote Originally Posted by markle View Post
    This is also the reason that hetero anal sex is prevalent in the Middle East.
    I've heard the exact same thing.

    In fact I heard that many Middle Eastern ladies have a fetish for it. Maybe their early experiences "programmed" them to enjoy it.

    Quote Originally Posted by markle View Post
    No-one is going to beat you up if you're a fag but the verbal denigration and social stigma of having a gay child are still there, just way less outwardly violent.
    My Thai niece and nephew were both "gay". They were brother and sister. The sister was a bit of a tom and liked girls but was mostly given a pass because it was (rightly so in her case) just considered a phase.

    The boy was not given any pass whatsoever, and it definitely wasn't a phase. It looked like he was born gay...always sensitive, effeminate, etc.

    His father was apparently mocked by co-workers (probably just light ribbing, really) and absolutely hated how his son was; he considered him a total embarrassment.

    He would throttle him, throw him, once beat him with a block of wood, the whole deal...


    Quote Originally Posted by kiwiling View Post
    also...as interesting as this thread is...nobody has mentioned the plight of the people who lose their cherry while being abused or put upon by an older person
    That would probably be me, by today's definition. I don't even consider that in the equation.

    One of my uncles (stepfather) was molesting my older female cousins, who in turn "molested" younger cousins...

    Typical story...at least back then.


    Quote Originally Posted by Bubba View Post
    I worked at a Christian school and one of the student magazines in the library had an article in it, written by a teenager, that basically said as long as the cock doesn't go in everything else is fair game.
    It's common thinking and I can accept that for a "technical definition" of "virginity"; but I quite reject the idea that little Susie is "pure" (as she often believes herself to be) because she only took 100 mouthfuls of cum or had it sprayed all over her belly!

    I'm sure there is something to be said for religion pumping up the guilt aspect to sex. If there's been a some kind of spiritual struggle, finally abandoning social conditioning to biological imperative, then that's a more compelling narrative than fucking someone who sees sex as being on a level with having a nice cup of tea.
    I like the "guilt aspect" of sex that religion usually pushes.

    It often slows girls activities down...but increases their desire and enthusiasm for it when they "give in"...



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    Last edited by IsaanAlex; 16th September 2012 at 14:27. Reason: Grammar as usual :)

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    Quote Originally Posted by IsaanAlex View Post
    It looked like her was born gay
    ...I know that's a typo...
    ...majestically enthroned amid the vulgar herd...

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    ^

    It's early, what can I say...

    *thank you and corrected*

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    Quote Originally Posted by IsaanAlex View Post
    I like the "guilt aspect" of sex that religion usually pushes.
    Really...guilt is a power tool...I prefer the Thai version...where sex is secondary to obligation to the partner...it ain't perfect...but far more natural...than anything the Christians or Muslims or whoever dream up

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    Quote Originally Posted by markle View Post
    That's my experience too. My point was that much of the negativity or intolerance is low-key, kept behind closed doors.
    I agree there is some negativity...but in comparison to home it is vitually non existent...it is the degree of intolerance that is the key...the Buddhist Thais...as opposed to those who still cling to Chinese culture... don't criticise what they don't understand...and IME once the hetero boys got past 14 years of age any intolerance they had was almost gone

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    Quote Originally Posted by kiwiling View Post
    where sex is secondary to obligation to the partner
    ...thank Heavens for that: those of us entering Pamper nirvana appreciate a good wipe...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tomcat View Post
    ...thank Heavens for that: those of us entering Pamper nirvana appreciate a good wipe...
    Mai khao jai...a dummies version please

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    Quote Originally Posted by IsaanAlex View Post
    I've heard the exact same thing.
    I remember being told a long time ago...that in the Christian west...anal sex was a preferred form of birth control within marriage...I sort of let that thought slip...until many decades later I was talking with a good teacher friend...a very independent feminine type...and let the comment slip out...she replied without hesitation...I would rather take it up the arse than get pregnant anyday...I didn't ask anymore

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    Quote Originally Posted by kiwiling View Post
    I would rather take it up the arse than get pregnant anyday
    ...my sentiments exactly...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tomcat View Post
    ...my sentiments exactly..
    but in that context...your sentiments don't count...sorry TC

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    Age 16...Patong Beach in Phuket...a Thai girl named Lek. I was an exchange student, in M5, and she was the daughter of the guy in charge of all the American exchange students that year. Still feel bad about that aspect of it
    "You can't HAVE everything. Where would you put it?"
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    This thread made me horny. Thanks a lot!

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    ^^My first (Asian) was in Patong, too! Nuoy, saw her recently she's gained 5 kilos.

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    Cheers to Patong!

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    Quote Originally Posted by teacherfinder View Post
    a Thai girl named Lek
    I know her!

    ---Update---

    Quote Originally Posted by Beavis View Post
    Nuoy
    Her too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by teacherfinder View Post
    Age 16...Patong Beach in Phuket...a Thai girl named Lek. I was an exchange student, in M5, and she was the daughter of the guy in charge of all the American exchange students that year.
    Now..........how long was that ago?

    Quote Originally Posted by keekwai View Post
    I know her!
    Quote Originally Posted by keekwai View Post
    Her too!
    Do you happen to know Ice?

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    As a matter of fact ....

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